I bought some TT XP 95 .370 40.5″ STEEL IRON SHAFT STIFF FLEX to fit my som to his AP2’s he doesnt want to give up on.  Got a call from Golf Galaxy that they wont fit up.   Any suggestions?

You likely require .355 tapered tip shafts. Did they offer to bore your hosels to .370?
If you can, return them for the .355 version.